Hi Readers,
The topic i am writing is quite common yet the most ignored. The desire of a woman what she wants to do in her life, what are her needs, her choices, her likes and dislikes.
It all starts from the time she is born, like some parents feel bad oh no! its a daughter(as if some thunderstorm felt on them), that they need to arrange her dowry. The girl who just opened her eyes has a life decided for her even before she learned how to think for herself.
As the role changes the expectation changes from people to people.
From being a daughter, a sister, a wife /a daughter in law and a mother. As a daughter, she is supposed to listen to her father and brother and learn all the household chores. As a wife/mother, she is always supposed to get up first, have to cook for the family, if she is a working woman has to go to work and get back home to do the chores.Run around doing all the chores without even taking a break thinking about each and every member of the family their likes dislikes giving attention to every details
Making sure everything is good in the house , from educating her kids, to cooking for family and even for friends and relatives on festivals.When either one of her family member is in problem(health problems/financial problem/emotional problem )she will be like a pillar there to support them, to stand by them in times of need she becomes a superwoman who is then used liked a trash bin, useful for cleaning your mess/taking care of yr problems and yet as easily forgotten when the work is done .
A man on the other hand just drives to a shopping center and the wife purchases stuff carries the stuff get it back home and cook it and she is not supposed to take rest while her husband is tired just by driving the car and relax either watching the tv or the iPad/phone. while she spends time taking care of the kids, cooking for her family.Isn't it ironic a dad cannot see his daughter work day and night but as a husband, you can make some one daughter work like a bull.
How many of us may have actually asked our sisters or mothers by spending a10min to ask how was her day.How many of us seen our mother or sisters even asking their respective husbands for their needs be fulfilled or at the most fighting for her rights, the respect they deserve
How many of us ask our married sister how their married life .we all expect our sisters n mothers not to tell their problems in front of other with the fear what will the society say and feel about men who can't even take care of their sister who is being abused on a daily basis.
How many ladies are suffocated in their relationship just for the society or because their family fails to help them fight with them against injustice
Females are the strongest let that be as a goddess or as a human they are blessed but yet again they are compelled to give into tough situations for saving family reputation
The helplessness a woman going through such a situation cannot b explained in this article or 1000 more because the pain is excruciating which nobody except that female on whom the atrocities is done can understand. Dying every minute isn't easy and it takes a lot of courage to put on a smile with those problems.life can literally become meaningless for them it's like a person left in a deserted area with no idea where to start and what should be the destination. Unable to decide to wish for beautiful life which is nothing less than a miracle or wish for death to escape all the problems.
Feeling worthless, not being able to find the capabilities you have. Just being commented for mistakes, never being appreciated for the good work done. As If the work didn't matter, yet taunted if not done according to the need.
Our society though in 22nd century has been biased and will remain biased. No matter. even if the woman gives divorce or woman give divorce, the female is at fault.She is either characterless or manner less. The worst is when other women taunt saying Nice!She deserves it because she has attitude problemsBeing a woman we get so sarcastic about other women. Are men not making our life terrible that we need to be like crab pulling each other's leg.Its hight time women in the society take a stand for themselves and help each other, being supportive instead of being sacarstic.
The topic i am writing is quite common yet the most ignored. The desire of a woman what she wants to do in her life, what are her needs, her choices, her likes and dislikes.
It all starts from the time she is born, like some parents feel bad oh no! its a daughter(as if some thunderstorm felt on them), that they need to arrange her dowry. The girl who just opened her eyes has a life decided for her even before she learned how to think for herself.
As the role changes the expectation changes from people to people.
From being a daughter, a sister, a wife /a daughter in law and a mother. As a daughter, she is supposed to listen to her father and brother and learn all the household chores. As a wife/mother, she is always supposed to get up first, have to cook for the family, if she is a working woman has to go to work and get back home to do the chores.Run around doing all the chores without even taking a break thinking about each and every member of the family their likes dislikes giving attention to every details
Making sure everything is good in the house , from educating her kids, to cooking for family and even for friends and relatives on festivals.When either one of her family member is in problem(health problems/financial problem/emotional problem )she will be like a pillar there to support them, to stand by them in times of need she becomes a superwoman who is then used liked a trash bin, useful for cleaning your mess/taking care of yr problems and yet as easily forgotten when the work is done .
A man on the other hand just drives to a shopping center and the wife purchases stuff carries the stuff get it back home and cook it and she is not supposed to take rest while her husband is tired just by driving the car and relax either watching the tv or the iPad/phone. while she spends time taking care of the kids, cooking for her family.Isn't it ironic a dad cannot see his daughter work day and night but as a husband, you can make some one daughter work like a bull.
How many of us may have actually asked our sisters or mothers by spending a10min to ask how was her day.How many of us seen our mother or sisters even asking their respective husbands for their needs be fulfilled or at the most fighting for her rights, the respect they deserve
How many of us ask our married sister how their married life .we all expect our sisters n mothers not to tell their problems in front of other with the fear what will the society say and feel about men who can't even take care of their sister who is being abused on a daily basis.
How many ladies are suffocated in their relationship just for the society or because their family fails to help them fight with them against injustice
Females are the strongest let that be as a goddess or as a human they are blessed but yet again they are compelled to give into tough situations for saving family reputation
The helplessness a woman going through such a situation cannot b explained in this article or 1000 more because the pain is excruciating which nobody except that female on whom the atrocities is done can understand. Dying every minute isn't easy and it takes a lot of courage to put on a smile with those problems.life can literally become meaningless for them it's like a person left in a deserted area with no idea where to start and what should be the destination. Unable to decide to wish for beautiful life which is nothing less than a miracle or wish for death to escape all the problems.
Feeling worthless, not being able to find the capabilities you have. Just being commented for mistakes, never being appreciated for the good work done. As If the work didn't matter, yet taunted if not done according to the need.
Our society though in 22nd century has been biased and will remain biased. No matter. even if the woman gives divorce or woman give divorce, the female is at fault.She is either characterless or manner less. The worst is when other women taunt saying Nice!She deserves it because she has attitude problemsBeing a woman we get so sarcastic about other women. Are men not making our life terrible that we need to be like crab pulling each other's leg.Its hight time women in the society take a stand for themselves and help each other, being supportive instead of being sacarstic.
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