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Dark and Dusky

Hi Readers,
               I recently read about the campaign of unfair and lovely.  Honestly magnificent  idea , its high time especially Indians  learn that  beauty is skin deep. You cant be beautiful just because you are fair. I  am Wheatish  and  since childhood i was told not to drink tea  as i am dark, i used to apply fairness creams , lots of pack and as my sister was  a fair the complexities grew more each time and  the end result i am some one who started believing i am not beautiful.   But as i grew  old  and wiser i realized, i am a  bit dark but not ugly  and being fair does not make you  beautiful.

I remember  an incident where  some one told a mother in law  ghar mein lakshmi aayi hai (meaning a daughter in law gets good luck of money when she comes to the house) , and the  mother in law retaliated  and said  Goddess Kali as  the daughter in law was  on the darker  side. I  actually thought of  telling her  dont instigate the wrath/anger of  Goddess kali by criticizing her

Being dark is not a sin but people are being punished for being dark. Even  in the famous novel mills and boons the hero was  characterized as tall, dark and handsome. Yet people want to be fair.

Well  our  society has always been biased and hope it  takes some heed and start looking at person abilities and feature rather then just defining some one by color.

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