Hi Readers,
Well recently I happen to came across a scenario where a girl was rejected just because she is FAT. Do you think is it fair for anyone to be rejected just because she is fat. Generally girls become fat after marriage so that means the in laws or the husband should leave her even after marriage just because she became fat. There is a rise in women who is having thyroid and thyroid does make women fat, so it is a reason for a husband to leave her.
The worst was when i met a lady whose husband remarried just because she became fat. I mean that lady had two beautiful girls and yet he thought of marrying just because his wife was no more attractive.
I am shocked even in this era where people are so educated and yet the only thing that matters is looks. what about compatibility???
when you go to see a bride of course looks matter but that should not be the only criteria to select a girl.People who think that a person is ugly because she is fat are ugly themselves to have such a low thinking judging based on looks.
I know many girls who are very attractive but are plum/chubby. Just because you are fat you cant eat what you like and cant dress the way you like. Being fat is not a reason for punishment.
The worst role of-course is even played by some parents, where they under the pressure of the society pressurize their own kid. They keep taunting them for her fattiness. You are her parents at least you should be kind to her. Give her a shoulder to cry on and help her. Boost her confidence rather then making her suffer with inferiority complex.
To all the parents who think their daughter cant get married to a better person just because she is fat. Well we all believe in God and God has created all of us in pairs. So I am sure she will get who is written for her. But till the time she gets married it is your responsibility as a parents to treat her like a princess and to heck with what the society says.
There is a famous saying kaki pilla kaki ki muddu( crow child will be dear to the crow, even though it will be dark) are we even worst then animals that we cant love the child who is a bit Plum/Chubby.
Well recently I happen to came across a scenario where a girl was rejected just because she is FAT. Do you think is it fair for anyone to be rejected just because she is fat. Generally girls become fat after marriage so that means the in laws or the husband should leave her even after marriage just because she became fat. There is a rise in women who is having thyroid and thyroid does make women fat, so it is a reason for a husband to leave her.
The worst was when i met a lady whose husband remarried just because she became fat. I mean that lady had two beautiful girls and yet he thought of marrying just because his wife was no more attractive.
I am shocked even in this era where people are so educated and yet the only thing that matters is looks. what about compatibility???
when you go to see a bride of course looks matter but that should not be the only criteria to select a girl.People who think that a person is ugly because she is fat are ugly themselves to have such a low thinking judging based on looks.
I know many girls who are very attractive but are plum/chubby. Just because you are fat you cant eat what you like and cant dress the way you like. Being fat is not a reason for punishment.
The worst role of-course is even played by some parents, where they under the pressure of the society pressurize their own kid. They keep taunting them for her fattiness. You are her parents at least you should be kind to her. Give her a shoulder to cry on and help her. Boost her confidence rather then making her suffer with inferiority complex.
To all the parents who think their daughter cant get married to a better person just because she is fat. Well we all believe in God and God has created all of us in pairs. So I am sure she will get who is written for her. But till the time she gets married it is your responsibility as a parents to treat her like a princess and to heck with what the society says.
There is a famous saying kaki pilla kaki ki muddu( crow child will be dear to the crow, even though it will be dark) are we even worst then animals that we cant love the child who is a bit Plum/Chubby.
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