Hi Readers,
Well we all dream of having a great life partners, from film actor/actress, cricket players, ...... etc and yes of course our inspiration " Movies". It takes us to a fairy tell world and we start imagining wishing our life partner could be like this as well.
Unfortunately, to burst the bubble our life partner are nowhere close to what we expect but aren't we being unfair. Why is it that we look only for flaws in our life partner and not see the better side of him/her. Our love stories may not be perfect as a fairy tell because we don't try to work on making it better, as we are so busy pointing out each others mistakes. We often forget that we can use the same time in loving each other, if and only if we can make certain compromises. If we could let go of our egos. Successful marriage are developed over time and are not instant noodles.
Personally I would suggest all the boys/girls who are married and about to get married get real and love the person you have in your life. We all are imperfect in some or the other way then how can we expect our life partner to be perfect. One should always love unconditionally. Your Life partner is your biggest gift god has given you after your parents.
Well we all dream of having a great life partners, from film actor/actress, cricket players, ...... etc and yes of course our inspiration " Movies". It takes us to a fairy tell world and we start imagining wishing our life partner could be like this as well.
Unfortunately, to burst the bubble our life partner are nowhere close to what we expect but aren't we being unfair. Why is it that we look only for flaws in our life partner and not see the better side of him/her. Our love stories may not be perfect as a fairy tell because we don't try to work on making it better, as we are so busy pointing out each others mistakes. We often forget that we can use the same time in loving each other, if and only if we can make certain compromises. If we could let go of our egos. Successful marriage are developed over time and are not instant noodles.
Personally I would suggest all the boys/girls who are married and about to get married get real and love the person you have in your life. We all are imperfect in some or the other way then how can we expect our life partner to be perfect. One should always love unconditionally. Your Life partner is your biggest gift god has given you after your parents.
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