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Bad Relations

Hello  Readers,
                             Having said  about  life partner and  compromises ,  I thought I should  even mention about  bad  relationships and  certain relationships  which  are not worth continuing.
                                    We  sometimes are in a  relationship,  with a person who don't even care about us and just  show superficially that they do. Such relationships are a  nothing  but a baggage  a person  should not carry forward  as  it leaves  you  feeling disgusting about your own self or  get strangled in such relations.
              As  per   me  if  you  are  in a  relationship  where  it ask you to compromise  your                   self respect, then it is  red signal  because  in  a real  relationship  partners  respect each other and their  feelings and  don't expect  you to do things that  you  don't like or  which will hurt you.
Real  relationships  does not demand  changes in you.
                                            A  relationship  should  benefit  both of you   and  if only one is   taking  unfair advantage by  making unreasonable demands then its  time for you to think. If  your  partner is  constantly lying  and  cheating  on you then  you  need  to understand  that its not  a mistake for you to forgive because  "Cheating and  Lying are not  mistakes they are  choices  which  a person make".
                                   If  you are in such  a relationship please take a step  and stop yourself from getting hurt and save  yourself.
                             





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